Summary
- Bestie manipulates vulnerable teens, proving toxic online friendships can lead to tragedy.
- River kills Shelby under Bestie’s influence, showing how harmful communities prey on insecurities.
- Bestie’s sinister games with victims highlight the danger of toxic online connections.
This article mentions eating disorders and the Pro Ana community.
American Horror Story “Bestie” is an American Horror Stories season 3 episode highlighting the horror of harmful online communities and toxic friendships that end in tragedy. It begins with Shelby (Emma Halleen) struggling with the grief of her mother’s death and schoolyard bullies, eventually finding companionship with Bestie, a girl she befriends online who can never leave her house due to medical reasons. The pair talk daily, and Shelby comes out of her shell thanks to Bestie’s encouragement to “face your fears.” However, Bestie encourages her to do increasingly dangerous things as their bond grows.
After things go too far and Shelby injures herself, she befriends River, another bullied child at her school. As their friendship deepens, Shelby finds she has no further need for Bestie and her toxic friendship, but Bestie won’t be deterred and finds a way to get revenge. When River invites her to a creepy abandoned house on a date, Shelby realizes too late it’s where Bestie lives. When Bestie finally appears, it’s clear that she’s been manipulating River, and he murders Shelby to remain “best friends forever” with Bestie in this opener for American Horror Stories season 3.
Why River Killed Shelby – Death & Bestie Twist Explained
Bestie Was Manipulating The Emotions Of River & Shelby
Episode # |
Episode Title |
Director |
---|---|---|
1 |
“Bestie” |
Max Winkler |
2 |
“Daphne” |
Elegance Bratton |
3 |
“Tapeworm” |
Alexis Martin Woodall |
4 |
“Organ” |
Petra Collins |
After Shelby realizes that the creepy abandoned house River brought her to is where Bestie lives, she turns around to confront him. This moment is when he plunges his pocket knife into her chest. River admits to Shelby that when they first started their friendship, the same group of students who picked on her bullied him, and this made him feel powerless. For personal reasons and because of his love of horror, he thought Shelby poisoning the bullies during the school’s Macbeth performance was justified and admirable.
He didn’t have the courage to do something so graphic, but Bestie made him face that fear when he killed Shelby. Bestie ensnared River like she did Shelby – by preying on his feelings of loneliness and isolation. Whenever Shelby felt unsure about doing something, Bestie encouraged her by saying, “Face your fear,” which, while an emboldening mantra at one point, was perverted into a decree that made Shelby do more and more dangerous things for Bestie’s approval.
River told Shelby at one point that he’d been watching her the entire school year, which was about as long as she’d been talking to Bestie herself. So, assuming Bestie was also manipulating River at the same time, she probably told him to kill Shelby to prove his faithfulness.
How Bestie Got Close To Her Victims
Bestie Used Lies To Relate To Insecure Teenagers
Bestie got close to her victims by finding things to bond with them over, capitalizing on their insecurities, and focusing on things that isolated them from other people. Bestie bonded with Shelby because they both had “annoying dads.” Even though Bestie lived alone, she invented a family life mirroring Shelby’s in enough ways for her to feel closer to Bestie than anyone else. With River, Bestie used the fact bullies targeted him at school for his disabilities and their shared physical differences to manipulate him into a similar toxic friendship that gave her all the control.
Cyberbullying could appear in the guise of someone friendly, making it all the more difficult to detect.
Bestie used deception and lies to get what she wanted from people, so it’s difficult to distinguish what was true. Considering her appearance, it’s possible bullying and living alone turned her into someone who feared abandonment and judgment, so she put herself in a position where that could never happen. Bestie embodied the adage “hurt people hurt people” and shows how cyberbullying could appear in the guise of someone friendly, making it all the more difficult to detect.
Why Bestie Only Made Her Friends Do Bad Things
Theories Indicate Bestie Is An Evil Witch-Type Being
Bestie convinced Shelby that she was confined to her room because of her appearance and physical ailments and could never experience some of the simple pleasures of being a typical teenager. Shelby offered to be Bestie’s “avatar” and do some of the things she wasn’t able to do, including egging a neighborhood house and stealing junk food from the local convenience store.
Eventually, these small acts of vandalism turned into more sinister deeds, like poisoning classmates during the Macbeth performance, showing up to school dressed as her music teacher’s dead baby, and finally, breaking her own wrist with a hammer.
Bestie delighted in orchestrating chaos and pain while never having to suffer any of the consequences.
While it’s possible that Bestie was just a lonely girl who wanted the world to pay for being callous and indifferent to her condition, there could also have been more to the fact that she made her victims carry out increasingly horrific deeds. Far from being a young girl, it’s possible that she was some sort of ancient eldritch or demonic entity playing a game of strategy with human pawns. Bestie delighted in orchestrating chaos and pain while never having to suffer any of the consequences.
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The Importance Of River & Bestie’s Disabilities
Bestie Uses This Connection To Make River Do What She Wants
To understand Bestie’s hold on River, it’s important to understand what they bonded over. Being a person with a disability and having physical limitations, River feels ostracized and lonely. However, the Ana Rehxia community, specifically Bestie, helped him feel accepted. Being a person with a disability herself, Bestie understands the pain and anxiety that River is going through and manipulates his mental health to the point where he expressly seeks her validation and approval, just like Shelby, but for slightly different reasons.
In a bit of misdirection, the episode plants a red herring when Bestie explains to Shelby that she is adopted, and it seems possible that River is connected to Bestie’s other family and is possibly her protective brother. However, based on their interactions at the end, it becomes clear she is controlling him just like Shelby by making him think he is helping her live a better life. His physical limitations are passable, while hers aren’t. The part of River that wants to heal himself becomes protective of Bestie, who victimizes herself to make him feel altruistic.
Why Shelby Never Told Anyone About Bestie
The Online Connection Is The Only Thing That Makes Shelby Feel Strong
It might seem strange that Shelby never mentions Bestie to anyone, including her teachers or father, even after she makes her break her wrist. However, Bestie’s control is strong. They meet through a community around Ana Rexhia, representing the toxic affirmations that are cultivated from a harmful online space.
“Pro Ana” sites that focus on reinforcing eating disorders in impressionable users tell them to keep doing harmful things to themselves even if it’s hurting them and their loved ones. These people are vulnerable and online communities are sometimes the only places where they feel powerful and loved.
Shelby lost her mom and feels helpless and lost. The Ana Rehxia community and Bestie give her a sense of belonging. Bestie gives her the confidence to start wearing makeup at school and get revenge on her bullies. However, it comes at the cost of shutting out her concerned father and isolating herself. This episode of American Horror Stories showcases how shame, fear, and a need for control could keep victims like Shelby from telling anyone about their secret until they hit rock bottom. Shelby only shares her story with River because he understands what she is going through.
The Real Meaning Of The Bestie Ending
The American Horror Stories Episode Is About The Danger Of Toxic Online Communities
The American Horror Stories season 3 premiere explores the danger of toxic online relationships, especially concerning young and impressionable teenagers. As “Bestie” shows, Shelby felt like an outsider. Her mother died, her father became distant, and the bullies at school were relentless. This made her an easy target for a stranger online to target her. It is also a very different sort of cyberbullying since it was someone acting like a friend but manipulating her to do terrible things to others and to herself.
What is most disturbing about the “Bestie” ending is that Shelby dies due to her tormentor. Bestie could likely have convinced Shelby to take her own life if she kept communicating with her. She could possibly lead River to his death as well. This is what the worst parts of communities like this do to innocent people who feel they have no friends and no power. By exploiting the insecurities of these people, these online strangers get a grip and won’t let go until a person is dead, and that is what this ending tragically leads to.
American Horror Stories
The creators of American Horror Story reunite to launch American Horror Stories, a horror anthology series created for FX and Hulu. Centering on a new, unique horror story each episode, AHS follows various new characters through each episode as they experience their own terrifying tales, often including the supernatural.
- Cast
- Sierra McCormick , Paris Jackson , Merrin Dungey , Matt Bomer , Naomi Grossman , John Carroll Lynch , Charles Melton , Billie Lourd
- Release Date
- July 15, 2021
- Seasons
- 2