90 Day Fiancé’s Michael Ilesanmi Reveals How He Avoids Angela Deem’s Constant Negativity After Leaving Her Filthy Home

Michael Ilesanmi from 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? has shared a simple trick to avoid being drawn into Angela Deem‘s negativity and remain happy. The Nigerian native arrived in the United States in December 2023, hoping to start a happy married life with Angela. However, he was upset to see how messy Angela’s house was. Despite this, he tried to overlook the issues out of love for his wife. Over time, Michael realized he would never regain Angela’s trust and that she would continue to abuse him verbally. Therefore, in February 2024, Michael ran away from Angela’s house.

Michael hasn’t reacted despite these shocking claims and remains unfazed on social media. He recently shared a funny video by @confidentlywomen on his Instagram Stories, showing how he avoids getting caught up in these accusations. The text in the video reads, “when someone tries to pour their negativity on me,” and a preschool girl is shown reacting by saying “no, thank you,” while pretending to pour out the contents of an empty cup.

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Michael Doesn’t Get Caught Up In Drama

During several heated arguments with Angela over the years, he stayed calm and let the situation diffuse instead of escalating it. His recent Instagram repost perfectly captures his sensible yet easygoing personality. The humorous video suggests that Michael is aware of all the accusations his former wife has been making on social media but chooses not to react aggressively. He makes light of the situation and responds with humility, rejecting negativity.

Since Michael appears unaffected by negative publicity, it seems that he has immense trust in his fan base, and they wouldn’t trust Angela’s words. The former 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? cast member doesn’t feel the need to address or dismiss all the allegations against him, as he believes his audience has faith in him. While Angela is intent on causing trouble in Michael’s life, he’s focused on advancing his career as an influencer on social media. He chooses not to dwell on Angela’s accusations and instead keeps his eyes on the prize, which is achieving his American dream.

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It Might Be Helpful For Michael To Address Accusations Head-On

Despite Michael not directly addressing Angela’s accusation against him, he isn’t simply letting her off the hook. Even though fans may not fully believe the accusation, Michael wants to ensure his voice is heard by using his trademark sarcastic humor to respond. As an introvert, it’s no surprise Michael chooses to repost relatable messages rather than craft a response himself. However, his fans would want him to engage more on social media. Given the 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? alum’s aspirations to be an influencer, he should be more expressive to cultivate a stronger connection with his followers.

Source: Michael Ilesanmi/Instagram, @confidentlywomen/Instagram

90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? follows the lives of couples from the original 90 Day Fiancé series as they navigate married life. The show explores the challenges, cultural adjustments, and evolving relationships these couples face post-marriage. It provides an in-depth look at how their dynamics change beyond the initial 90-day visa period and continues the narrative of their pursuit of a lasting union.

Cast

Angela Deem , Elizabeth Potthast , Andrei Castravet , Michael Ilesanmi , Paola Mayfield , Russ Mayfield , Loren Brovarnik , Alexei Brovarnik , Chantel Everett , Pedro Jimeno , Ed Brown , Liz Woods , Larissa Dos Santos Lima , Colt Johnson , Kalani Faagata , Asuelu Pulaa , Jovi Dufren , Yara Zaya , Debbie Johnson , Shaun Robinson , Danielle Mullins , Mohamed Jbali , Jasmine Pineda , Gino Palazzolo , Emily Bieberly , Kobe Blaise , Anfisa Arkhipchenko , Jorge Nava , Nicole Nafziger , Sophie Sierra , Rob Warne , Nicole Jimeno , Kim Menzies , Ashley Michelle , Manuel De Jesus Velez-Rojas , Usman Umar , Thomas Everett , Skyla Deem , Rebekah Lichtwerch , Thaís Ramone , Patrick Mendes , Karen Everett , Chuck Potthast , Jenn Davis , Jenny Slatten , Shaeeda Sween , Sumit Singh , Bilal Hazziez , Winter Everett , Jess Caroline , Natalie Podiakova , Mike Youngquist , TIffany Franco , River Everett , Azan Tefou , Eric Nichols , Ashley Martson , Jay Smith , Charlie Potthast , Julia Trubkina , Brandon Gibbs , Lidia Morel , Syngin Colchester , Ronald Smith , Tania Maduro , David Toborowsky , Annie Suwan , Molly Hopkins , Paul Staehle , John Mcmanus

Release Date

September 11, 2016

Seasons

8

Main Genre

Reality-TV

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